Reciprocal Verbs and Reciprocal Pronouns

Introduction

Reciprocal verbs show that two or more people are performing an action on one another.

Reciprocal pronouns, which are always plural, indicate who is performing the reciprocal action.

Reciprocal Verbs

Reciprocal verbs are a type of pronominal verb used to talk about actions that people do to each other.

For example:

Antonio y yo nos besamos.
Antonio and I kissed each other.
¿Os conocéis?
Do you all know each other?
Juan y María se casaron.
Juan and Maria got married (to each other).
Los estudiantes se ayudan.
The students help each other.

Reciprocal Pronouns

Reciprocal verbs are formed by the combination of a verb and a reciprocal pronoun.

Since reciprocal actions always involve two or more people, only plural pronouns are considered reciprocal.

A list of these pronouns is given in the table below.

Person Spanish English
First person nos to, for, from, or off ourselves
Second person os to, for, from, or off yourselves
Third person se to, for, from, or off themselves, yourselves

Reciprocal or Reflexive

Sentences with reciprocal actions sometimes look just like sentences with reflexive actions.

To differentiate a reflexive action from a reciprocal action, the use of expressions such as uno al otro, uno a otro, mutuamente, recíprocamente, entre sí, etc. can be added to a phrase to show the subjects are performing the action on each other. All these expressions can be roughly translated as each other, one another or mutually.

For example:

Se aman mutuamente.
They love one another
Se aman uno al otro.
They love each other.
No nos vemos uno a otro.
We can’t see each other.

List of Common Reciprocal Verbs

Below you'll find a list of verbs that are commonly used to talk about reciprocal actions.

Spanish English
abrazarse to hug each other
conocerse to know each other
mirarse to see each other
ayudarse to help each other
despedirse to say goodbye to each other
pelearse to fight with each other
besarse to kiss each other
divorciarse to divorce each other
reunirse to get together
casarse to marry each other
estrellarse to crash into each other
turnarse to take turns